Getting married is lovely and dream come true or supposed to be until reality sets in...and we wonder wether we would have been better off the way we were...please lets get real. I would love to read from people. Is marriage pain or gain? I am still amongst the set of people that believe it is gain, you gain a friend, lover and partner. It comes with it's baggage but overall the fact that you are not alone is quite comforting and reduces the stress of life in general.
I hope you are on my side too, anyway am sure there is a reason lets all learn from practical experiences....
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ReplyDeleteBefore I start I'd like to state that no marriage is without pain/gain. But we're talking about a marriage being an overall pain or an overall gain i.e. at least 75% of the time.
ReplyDeleteGod has destined marriage to be an overall gain. Definitely! However, (let's face it), If all the marriages in the world were actually in the centre of God's will as overall gains, the world will not be where it is today (e.g divorce rates, unhappy marriages). Why is this? Well because in some marriages both parties are constant pain causers, and in some one party is a continuous pain.
We all need to be gain causers to a marriage (i.e. at least most of the time) regardless of whether one's partner is a pain causer or not.
lol!!! that is how I am persuaded about the topic. May God grant us all the grace and help us all in Jesus mighty name.
Thanks for the comment, very lovely and spiritual perspective. We really need God in all our doings. I agree with you and May God bless us all.
ReplyDeletevery funny!!!! I don't really think so, it's about getting your priorities right and planning properly. It might take a while but surely something will give.... well! I suppose.
ReplyDeleteAs long as we are happy and want to work on the relationship then it won't be so bad
ReplyDeleteI really dont get it. if two people are truly in love, there should hardly be painful periods, however if it happens, there should always be a way out i.e to resolve issues.
ReplyDeleteReally true love forgives, keeps no records of wrong, shares etc to mention a few
Remember some people have been happily married for over 59 years and still doing things together.
I believe marriage shoul not a gain and not pain if you are in it for love (true love!!!)
In reality there will be problems but as you said if there is true love then that conquers all......Thanks for the comment
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